If you clicked on this blog post, you’ve been thinking about how to teach social emotional skills to preschoolers. I’m so happy you are here! Social emotional skills, such as self-regulation, empathy, communication, friendship skills, conflict resolution and problem solving, play such an important role in a preschooler’s overall development. As teachers and parents, we know that social emotional learning needs to be at the heart of all we do with our preschoolers. However, sometimes it’s tough to figure out how to teach social emotional skills to our young learners.
In this blog post, I will delve into the importance of nurturing social-emotional skills in your preschoolers. In addition, I will provide practical strategies and activities for teachers and parents to support their growth.
Before I jump into how we can effectively teach social emotional skills to preschoolers, I’m so excited to share with you my latest free resource. Click on the image below to download this free Size of the Problem vs Reaction Game, that reinforces the concept of Size of the Problem. Help your students practice recognizing that not all problems are the same and that our reactions will differ accordingly.
Why are Social Emotional Skills Important?
Early childhood is a critical period for the development of social-emotional skills in children. During the preschool years, children are actively learning how to interact with others, express their emotions, and regulate their behavior.
Nurturing these skills at this stage sets the stage for future social competence and emotional well-being. Children who possess strong social-emotional skills are better equipped to handle challenges, form positive relationships, and thrive in various social settings.
Preschoolers who lack adequate social-emotional skills may struggle with understanding and managing their own emotions, conflict resolution, empathy, and understanding others’ perspectives.
By focusing on fostering these skills early on, we can help children build a strong foundation for healthy social interactions, emotional resilience, and overall well-being.
Investing in the social-emotional development of preschoolers not only benefits the individual child but also contributes to creating a more compassionate and empathetic society.
It is so important that we prioritize these skills in early education, so that we can nurture our children’s innate capacity for empathy, cooperation, and emotional intelligence.
Key Social Emotional Skills to Develop in Preschoolers
Here’s a bit more detail about the key social-emotional skills which are crucial for healthy overall development of our preschoolers.
- Self-regulation, the ability to identify and manage emotions and behavior in different situations, is essential for navigating social interactions and learning experiences.
- Empathy, the capacity to understand and share others’ feelings, fosters positive relationships and conflict resolution skills.
- Effective communication enables children to express themselves clearly and listen to others, promoting effective social interactions.
- Problem-solving skills empower preschoolers to think critically, make decisions, and resolve conflicts independently.
- Responsible decision making which helps children look at a situation, analyze what is happening with a curious and open-mind then identify possible solutions for these problems.
By honing these foundational social-emotional skills, children not only enhance their interpersonal relationships but also improve their academic performance and overall well-being.
As teachers, it is essential to provide opportunities for preschoolers to practice and refine these social-emotional skills in various contexts.
By incorporating SEL activities into daily routines, we can help children build a strong social-emotional foundation that will serve them throughout their lives.
How to teach social emotional skills to preschoolers in fun and effective ways
As educators, we play a vital role in supporting the social-emotional development of our preschoolers. Creating a safe and nurturing environment where children feel valued and respected is the first step in promoting these skills.
Establishing clear expectations for behavior, explicitly teaching social emotional skills, and modeling positive social interactions are effective ways to cultivate social-emotional competence in our young learners.
In addition to that, here are some fun and effective ways to teach these vital social emotional skills to our young learners:
- Role-play
a. Role-play common scenarios or problems they may encounter. Unleash the power of social scenarios in your classroom using scenarios like conflict resolution scenarios, fairness scenarios, kindness scenarios or big problem little problem scenarios to promote discussions focused on specific social skills you want to target. Here is my Kindness Scenarios FREEBIE if you want to add them to your unit on Kindness.
b. Have a dramatic play area in your classroom. Acting allows our preschoolers to try and make sense of real-life situations. They can explore, investigate and experiment from a safe distance. Students will need to collaborate with their peers and learn to empathize and understand other perspectives. Every preschool classroom NEEDS to have a dramatic play area for their students. So much learning and processing happens in that area!
c. Role-play a problem and your students have to tell you the Size of the Problem. This could be extended by discussing possible solutions for the problem as well. Another variation on this is a fun freebie game I have called Size of the Problem vs Reaction. Pick a problem card. Then pick a reaction card, which you will then act out, no matter if the reaction doesn’t seem to match the problem. This will lead to some giggles, however at the same time, leads to memorable discussions around our reactions to problems. For example, you break a pencil and throw yourself on the floor acting very upset! If this sounds like something you’d like to try, download it here.
d. Tabletop/ Small World Dramatic Play – Create tabletop role-play opportunities for your students to move characters around while interacting with each other. So many beautiful opportunities to play out different real life situations your students may be encountering. I have been witness to scenarios exploring death, family breakdowns, new babies coming into families, conflict resolutions and marriages.
2. Create opportunities for collaboration:
a. Cooperative drawing – this could be organized in a few different ways. Firstly, where you have one large drawing sheet at the easel where two children are encouraged to work on together. Secondly, you could pass a large sheet of paper around the circle for each child to add to.
b. Cooperative challenges – pose a problem or challenge where students have to work together to figure it out. For my young students, cooperative block building is the way to go. Have your students work in pairs or small groups of 3. Invite them to build a luxury home for a basket of animals you provide them.
c. Cooperative physical games – Play the game ‘Islands’ which you will need one hula hoop for every 3 children. You then spread the hoops around and play some music. When the music stops, every child must step in a hoop and each hoop must contain at least 3 children. They will need to cooperate and hold onto each other to fit inside a hoop. So much fun!
3. Reading & responding to picture books – If you are a regular to my blog, you will know how much I love picture books! Picture books are such a valuable tool in helping children explore different social emotional learning concepts. They are my first port of call when I am thinking about how to introduce a concept and to generate a discussion.
Story books offer a safe space for children to explore their emotions and fears. It provides them with relatable characters and empowering storylines to relate to. I have an extensive list in this blog post if you are looking for ideas … 50 Social Emotional Development Picture Books
4. Participate in community events – Participate in community events where your students can help others or be of service to the community. Through these experiences, you will be able to reinforce empathy and perspective taking within your classroom.
There are celebrations such as kindness week, random acts of kindness week, International Friendship Day, Earth Day or Be Kind to Animals Week that would really get your students involved in helping others.
If you are looking for more ideas, check out this blog post that includes 11 fun kindness holidays to help promote kindness in your classroom.
5. Play games – Preschoolers love it when we make learning fun. Through games we can easily teach and reinforce so many social skills.
a. Turn Taking – Sit and play a simple board game or card game with your students.
b. Managing impulses – Play games such as Simon says or Red Light Green Light.
c. Identifying how others might be feeling or reading facial expressions – Play emotions charades. One player acts out a certain emotion and the other players must guess which feeling is being portrayed.
d. Accepting differences in others – Play would you rather. Give your students two options and they must choose one. Invite them to give an explanation why if possible.
This gives insight into individual preferences and values and allows your students to see that it’s ok to have or like different things. If you would like 100+ Would You Rather Questions for Preschoolers, I’ve got a blog post here.
e. Ice Breaker Games – Play ice breaker games to get your students connecting. A fun game to play is called A Great Wind Blows. Have your students sit in a circle and the “Caller” calls out, “A great wind blows for everyone who …”. Fill in the blank with things like, “had cereal for breakfast or has a baby at home.” If this sounds like fun, I’ve got some fun ice-breaker games and getting to know you activities in my First Week of School Activities resource.
6. Photography or picture drawing exercise – To encourage your students to start seeing things from a different perspective, have them take photos from the perspective of someone or something else. For example, from the perspective of their baby sister, pet dog, their parents or grandparent.
You could also invite your students to draw a picture from the point of view of a bird or an ant.
They all Saw a Cat by Brendan Wenzel is an awesome book that shows us the many views of one cat, and how perspective shapes what we see.
The Role of Parents and Caregivers in Fostering Social Emotional Development
Parents and caregivers are essential partners in nurturing the social-emotional skills of preschoolers. The home environment plays a significant role in shaping children’s social interactions, emotional regulation, and communication patterns. By modeling positive behaviors, demonstrating empathy, and providing a supportive and loving atmosphere, parents can instil valuable social-emotional lessons in their children.
Encouraging autonomy, independence, and self-reflection empowers children to develop self-regulation skills and take ownership of their emotions and behaviors. Establishing consistent routines, boundaries, and expectations helps create a sense of security and stability that is essential for social-emotional growth.
Collaborating with educators to reinforce social-emotional learning at home and school creates a cohesive approach to supporting children’s development. Sharing insights on children’s strengths, challenges, and progress allows parents and teachers to work together to provide a holistic support system for the child.
Conclusion: Building a Strong Foundation in Social Emotional Learning
Investing in social-emotional learning in the early years is everything!! It sets our students up on a path to becoming socially competent, resilient, and compassionate individuals.
Through intentional teaching socail emotional learning, providing focused activities, and resources, we can create an environment that promotes healthy social-emotional development and emotional well-being for our preschoolers.
With this blog post, you will never have to think, “How to teach social emotional skills to preschoolers?” again.
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Want more ideas on how to teach social emotional skills in your classroom? These blog posts have lots of ideas:
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